All growing up, my dad would hold monthly interviews every Fast Sunday with each of his children. We would talk about goals we wanted to make, and then we'd go over them at the next interview. The goals would range from spiritual goals (like scripture reading or prayers) to goals about school, sports, friends, etc. I still have all of the notes he took....starting from age 5, up until high school.
Well on Sunday, Nate gave Cameron his very first "Father-Son Interview." The two of them sat in Cam's room, said a prayer, and then made some goals and discussed "life" for little Cambop! Simple things like:
1) Learn about community helpers at school.
2) Clean up toys every night before bed.
3) Read more books with Mommy.
4) Practice basketball & tennis this month.
They also talked about what Cam has been learning in Primary, and Nate shared a scripture and explained it to Cam. It only took about 10 minutes, but what an impact it'll have on Cam as he grows up! I am so proud of them!!! I love that Nate wants to continue this tradition with our children. I think it will help them stay close to us, especially as they get older. We can always know who their friends are, what they are struggling with, any questions they have about anything, share testimonies, and give advice.
I love you, Nate!! I always tell him he's extra sexy to me when he does little things to lead our family to the Celestial Kingdom! haha! It's true though! I wanted a man who would do just that, and nothing makes me happier!
My own John Mayer...and his little sidekick!
What Roo was doing when I went to fetch her from her nap today. Reading Curious George!! We have been going to the library almost weekly.
Watching Ice Age together. Best friends.
8 comments:
So cute!! I love that idea!! I love that you share things about your family and parenting, it makes me excited and gives me ideas and preparation for when I become a parent! It's a long way from now, but thank you for your example :)
Chris and I have discussed having him do the same thing and I think it's such a good idea. What I love is how your dad took notes and kept them. That is something I'd like us to do too! Something else we talked about is going on "dates" with our kids where we find a way to give them that one on one time. Only time will tell how we do that but like you said, these things will have a lasting impact on them and help us as parents be blessed with the gift of discernment as we do our part in being involved and actively participating in our children's lives and strive to instill in them gospel principles. Love your post!
YES Janae! I refuse to be one of those parents who has no idea what their child is up to. I have personally seen the devastating effect that can have on the children (usually teenagers!). I've talked to Nate about having "dates" with our kids too. Obviously there is NO way to guarantee our children will make it through with no bumps or bruises, but I strongly believe that parents have more good influence than we often think we do!! I'd MUCH rather my kids feel they can come to Nate & I with their problems and questions than turn to their peers or people where we have NO idea what advice they'll be given!
That is such a wonderful and cute idea! What a wondeful way to get your children thinking and a PERFECT way to bond and share your dreams! I love it!
I love the shots of the kids together. You guys are doing everything right!
What a GREAT idea Becca! Thanks for sharing with all of us! I totally LOVE the pictures of the kids cuddling on the couch. I'm still waiting for that with James and Jeremy. Jeremy adores James but is still a bit young to play with him the way James wants to! It will come though - I'm sure of it!!
I just caught up on all your posts. I LOVE reading your blog. I think like you, I get you. Everything you say makes sense to me and I understand. Thanks for the posts.
Cam will thank you for that one day. The kids are so sweet together.
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